Being sexy and all it comprises of has been the quest of many seeking to achieve the results of being one who allures.
But as with many things, we often put the cart before the horse and we’ve got it backward. Whenever you notice your focus or thought process is from the outside in then you’ve got it all wrong. If you’re thinking “What do I need to do to make them notice me?” or “How can I get them to do this for me by just using my appearance or a touch?” Then you’ve got it all wrong.
Unlocking your inner sexy isn’t about what you can make people do for you. It’s also not about getting people to stop and gawk at you or to compliment your smoking hot looks.
Your inner sexy absolutely, 100% starts from within. Inside, out is the way to go! Because if you’re approaching it from the outside-in guess who’s not in control of your sexy? That’s right, it’s not you. And you are the only one who should be in the driver’s seat when it comes to what you feel sexy in or doing.
Your sexy shouldn’t be defined by following trends or trying to appease what someone else likes because that’s not authentic to who you are. Sexiness starts with you and the things that resonate with you. I believe we have our one default, signature sexy “brand” if you will that more of us need to invest more time in discovering so we can tap into it more.
For me, my top two favorite “sexy” appeals are an edgy, cute bob with a classic red lip or a more playful sleek, long ponytail, the way Arianna Grande wears hers. I recently played with a bun, up-do look and I love that one as well, but the first two are what I default to when I feel like prowling. I’m still exploring other things I like, from the perfumes I prefer to the designer brands I favor.
What’s your signature?
Do you know the scent you like to wear? How do you like to present your physical appearance from head to toe? What about your mannerism? That’s part of your personal branding too and your allure.
If you’re new to this, start with where you’re at. What do you love or not care for so much about your current self-brand? I would argue if you don’t absolutely LOVE it, then keep searching until you find the things you love in the various areas. Here are a few areas to explore and establish your signature. And by signature I mean it’s your consistent, daily default for the most part.
Consider or learn your signature:
Favorite places to shop and eat
Favorite way to relax
Favorite way to have fun
Favorite way to travel
Preferred method of processing/belief system
Social events you frequent
All of these factors are imprints that collectively form your signature brand of YOU along with how you and those who come in contact with you will experience your brand. Choose intentionally and wisely!
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