Living the Life You Want Starts With Your Mindset (Not With Your Paycheck)

Fabulous news! Your paycheck doesn’t prevent you from having the lifestyle you want!

If anything you just have to get more creative with how you spend it or how you increase it!

But either way, the fact remains that your paycheck isn’t what’s holding you back from having the nice home, wearing the nice clothes, or being invited to fancy soirees.

It’s your mindset.

Your mindset is really the only thing that can keep you from achieving any of the things you say you want to do. Especially in this day and age with social media pretty much allowing any sole individual to build their stage and a following without having to invest a penny.

Your mindset has either been propelling your forward towards your goals or hampering your progress.

Take a few minutes to evaluate your mental with regards to your current state of life and the future of what you hope for.

Ask yourself, “Am I happy with where I’m at in life now?” “Do I feel that achieving the life I really want is doable? Or do I feel it’s too farfetched?”

Take note of the feeling in your gut. Did you feel optimistic hope arising? Or was it more a feeling of dread in the pit of your stomach?

Don’t be too hard on yourself if it’s the latter because so much of our environment and upbringing for many of us was filled with parents, teachers, or well-wishers looking out for ‘our best interests” when they told us to fall in line and play it safe.

In reality, they were just parroting what they’d been told and programmed to do. Stay safe. Blend in. Don’t go too far out of line.

It’s a debilitating mentality to adopt and what they don’t often share with you are the regrets they have from following the same advice they gave you.

Some of them may not have even thought far enough to the things they’d have liked to do because they just shut it all off from an early age and never even gave themselves room to try.

I believe our generation and the ones rising up will be different.

We have to be. Now more than ever, it’s become evident that you can create your own multiple streams of income and create your own job security without worrying about an employer firing you on a whim.

Everyone isn’t an entrepreneur, so if working for an employer fits in your lifestyle and allows you to accomplish the life you want for yourself then by all means work the 9-5.

But don’t let it work you!

It doesn’t matter how much you bring in, it’s what you do with it. Because you can have all the money in the world and still be miserable.

You may need to spend a season learning how to multiply those dollar bills. You may need to learn to make better spending decisions or investments.

Each of those processes starts with your mental and consistent, conscious efforts to build towards your end game every single day.

Remember, it’s a process so it’s okay to have moments where you may slip and to take a step back. Dust off and re-engage.

Over time your consistent mentality and actions will bring you the results of living the dream lifestyle you want and you'll master the art of telling your money where to go, instead of the other way around!

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