One of the biggest gripes I’ve seen on both sides of the aisle is the complaint that neither side knows how to start or hold a good, meaningful conversation.
No matter how attracted you may be to someone, that attraction can fizzle out pretty quickly if you find neither of you has anything meaningful to say.
This is definitely an area where you as the man, would benefit from taking the lead.
Remember, although she may be a pretty face you also should have a criteria you are searching for in a woman. You should be intentional about learning if she meets those criteria beyond just her good looks.
You do that by starting meaningful conversations and asking good questions.
You’re looking for your best friend or future partner, right? She may need to like dogs or cats. She may need to be okay with the fact you work long hours, that you may have a pre-existing condition or disability, that you like or don’t like something.
All of these are the great conversational topics you should be having with a potential match.
We’re not on dating apps to find pen pals who want to know “How are you?” or “What are you doing?” all the time.
A quality woman is going to be able to start insightful conversations from thin air and it’s on you to show her that you can as well, to match the quality of conversations.
Don’t let her take lead in this area too much, otherwise, you will bore her quickly. No matter how good-looking you are. A woman’s mind needs to be mentally stimulated if she is to take you seriously and go to a deeper level with you.
Think about the things that interest you or maybe even a funny story about something you learned about women from your sisters or a stranger and use those topics to create fun, engaging conversation where you are sharing your personality and perspective as well as getting to learn more about the person she is.
This will help you weed out the right type of woman to build something more substantial with.
For more tips on how to get women to date you read How To Get Women To Date You.
To learn more about setting up an online dating app profile read How To Setup A Captivating Dating App Profile.
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