You know better but for whatever reason, you continually choose the opposite. You know they’re toxic and no good for you, but you can’t let them go. They once made you feel loved and cared for.
Maybe you just need to give them more time to reach their potential or to become the fantasy you wanted. Maybe they’re right, you are a mess and it’s your fault the relationship keeps breaking up or you’re the reason there’s so much drama.
Maybe they are right.
You are the reason your relationships continue to be toxic and fail. But it’s not because you’re a bad person. It’s because of your programming to attract, entertain, and indulge in those toxic relationships, people, and subconsciously those are the factors feeding your underlying toxic patterns.
This is the real reason why even if you know better you fail to do better. Think about it. When you’ve fought so hard not to call or text them after they hurt you 3 months ago and you finally break down because you missed them so much that you reach out? Or respond back to their calls and texts because even if they’re toxic you want to believe their consistency is a good sign they may have actually changed or be ready to?
When you make the time to face your inner trauma or demons and get control of them you start to deprogram what you’ve normalized as love. True, love has its good days and bad days, but there shouldn’t be so many toxic days or more of the bad than the good. You shouldn’t be holding onto a person’s potential to your breaking points. Love doesn’t cause you to stress or live in fear of abandonment or being inadequate.
That’s not love. Not from other people or for yourself either.
When you take your self-healing seriously you will notice a shift. It’s like losing your taste for the things that never served you. You just lose the desire or will to entertain toxic people and their behaviors. Your love palate demands more and anything less, even if you’re tempted to indulge in it for a few seconds will quickly become unappealing to your new senses.
This is why if you’re struggling to let go of a toxic ex or to stop dating them, you need to focus on healing the parts of you that are drawing you to that type of toxic energy. Once you fix what’s broken on the inside I promise you life and love will get better!
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