"We only get one set of birth parents. Parenting doesn't stop when a child reaches adulthood. Whether your parents are actively present or if you have to learn to parent yourself, it's a life-long occupation . . . unfortunately, many parents never learn how to parent well."
- Mel Williams
Do you suffer from EUPs?
EUPs stands for emotionally unavailable parents, which is the leading cause in childhood trauma that has been creating generations of adults who fail at relationships. Parents are our first primary source during our developmental years to learn how to experience relationships. If your parents failed to teach and model a healthy relationship dynamic during your childhood development, you are highly likely to be suffering from some degree of EUP in your adulthood. Most people are not aware of how deeply this root issue stems and is causing the root of all their relationship issues (professional, personal, and romantic).
Are you an EUP?
If you are a parent who is overwhelmed with adult responsibilities, it’s very easy to neglect the emotional needs of your child. As a parent providing the basic needs of food, clothing, and shelter for your child is necessary, but there is a far greater need your child will require from you and that is being emotionally available. You are your child’s first line of defense and resource when it comes to understanding healthy relationships. If you continue to allow yourself to be overwhelmed, while neglecting your child’s emotional needs your child will develop problems in forming healthy relationships in every area of their lives (to include personal, work, and romantic) throughout their lifetime.
And let's not forget YOUR inner child! We all still carry our inner younger self with us, even in adulthood. The fact is we carry our little guy or gal with us our entire lifetime. The same principles apply to your inner child, as it would to your children. It's not enough to simply provide yourself the basic necessities of survival. Your inner child yearns for more. A deeper connection with yourself, in life, in meaningful relationships with others. If you find yourself mentally checked out of life and not even sure how to start connecting with your inner child this is the place for you to learn how to do just that! Be sure to grab a copy of my HIS healing guide to start your transformation and literally change your lifestyle to one you've always dreamt it'd be.
And let's not forget YOUR inner child! We all still carry our inner younger self with us, even in adulthood. The fact is we carry our little guy or gal with us our entire lifetime. The same principles apply to your inner child, as it would to your children. It's not enough to simply provide yourself the basic necessities of survival. Your inner child yearns for more. A deeper connection with yourself, in life, in meaningful relationships with others. If you find yourself mentally checked out of life and not even sure how to start connecting with your inner child this is the place for you to learn how to do just that! Be sure to grab a copy of my HIS healing guide to start your transformation and literally change your lifestyle to one you've always dreamt it'd be.
"Here at HIS I'm passionate about breaking down the ART & SCIENCE of relationships. I cover parenting, childhood experiences related to trauma, dating, & healthy relationship practices."
- Mel Williams
How can HIS help you?
Here at Healing Is Sexy (HIS), my mission is help you heal your EUP syndrome (root source of trauma) so it stops ruining your love life and so you can start to truly live your best life through a more authentic connection with SELF. Society has conditioned us for a lot of things we need to unlearn about our careers, life, happiness, love & relationships. It’s time to get off the struggle bus and stop doing what the majority is doing. It isn’t working! I invite you to start your HIS journey and join my HIS community today. It's affordable, safe, practical, and fun!
HIS is also the future home of the Secured Dating Academy where you can learn to securely date and form intimate, personal relationships. When more people truly learn how to create and sustain secure relationship attachments more of us will have the opportunity to experience happier, healthier, and successful love lives! Stay tuned for more on this by subscribing and following my social platforms below.
"Healing your childhood trauma doesn't have to take years or be expensive. Once you start the process, it can take as little as 1 hour to apply the knowledge and reap the benefits. You no longer have to wait to get on someone's schedule, pay unaffordable fees, or leave the comforts of home. My HIS guide removes those barriers."
- Mel Williams
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