FAQ - Healing Is Sexy

What is HIS?

Healing is Sexy (HIS) is a movement and community of like minded individuals (regardless or your current relationship status) who wish to better understand how to experience successful relationships/marriages, through healing childhood trauma and learning relationship skills. If you're tired of failing at marriage/relationships or you want to improve a current miserable relationship you've come to the right place!

Who is HIS for?

Primarily for anyone who experienced having physically and/or emotionally absent parents during childhood. But everyone can benefit from the relevant content on self-healing, re-parenting, and relationship skills for successful marriage. We all have childhood trauma and/or can learn to improve our relationship skills so we can experience happier, healthier relationships/marriages. Remember, your childhood environments have a direct impact on how you show up in relationships/your marriage today.

What is a HIS Party & How Do I Attend?

A H.I.S. Party is an annual event I host to celebrate and reward those who successfully complete the Self-Healing Journey BASIC program. Think of it as a luxurious graduation weekend celebration with your fellow co-horts and the perfect way to mark your new beginnings from your self-healing and bring in the new year!

H.I.S. Party's are invite-only! To receive an invite you must enroll in the Self-Healing Journey BASIC program. Once you've successfully completed the program you will receive an invite to purchase tickets for the VIP treatment luxury event, aka a H.I.S. Party!

For more details please visit the H.I.S. Party tab and scroll down.

What services do you offer?

I provide self-healing therapeutic sessions that are meant to give you the tools to have healthy, happy, and successful relationships with yourself and in your love life. I also serve as a relationship coach. You can book a call session or join my Self-Healing Journey offer to work with me 1:1 for four (4) weeks.

My services are geared towards emotional health and relationship security and I would advise you seek a mental health professional (a therapist) for mental health concerns.

Do you accept insurance?

No, I do not accept insurance.

Why don't you accept insurance?

Insurance covers the cost of mental health service providers (i.e. therapists) and medical expenses (i.e. prescription drugs).

I am not a mental health service provider/therapist and I do not prescribe medicines/drugs.

Can I still use my therapist?

Absolutely! Healing and finding the right combination of help is a process unique to everyone. My own journey has involved several mentors and so will yours!

I believe in working with clients who prioritize their healing work and love life. At the time of this writing I charge less than the price of traditional therapy and I offer more benefits.

Nearly every client I’ve worked with come to me after already trying traditional therapy or they currently are still working with another therapist and it either did not work well for them or they've shared with me they've made more progress from just one hour of my sessions then they have ever made going to their current therapist.

Clients tell me they paid other professional therapists or marriage counselors more and gotten little to NO results, but once they start working with me they notice a huge difference! Even long after we stop working together you will still be able to use what I’ve shared with you during our sessions! Guaranteed (I put my own name behind that one!)

What makes HIS/you different from a traditional therapist?

Here are some things you will notice very different with my approach:

- I am less expensive for the benefits I provide
- I am more flexible and accommodating with the hours I can offer
- I provide more/double what a traditional therapist offers because I know you need more than just 1 hour, especially in the beginning to start unpacking and processing everything.
- I know how to adapt my teaching style to fit your learning style. If you've ever been to a therapist who you feel wasn't the best use of your time because they just didn't get you or you just couldn't really learn from them you know exactly what I'm talking about!
- I am truly a NEUTRAL 3rd party. I do not take sides.
- This is my PASSION, not my PAYCHECK. You are not just another case number/file/insurance claim or a paycheck. Here at HIS, YOU MATTER!
- I am personable and again I LOVE what I do helping you have breakthrough moments and live a happier, healthier emotional lifestyle!
- You can always read my blogs and check the content I create providing FREE therapy and help on my social media platforms listed below! You can already be benefiting from my work just by joining any one of these communities.

Also please note, by definition a therapist/therapy is designed to treat MENTAL health issues caused by abnormal or imbalanced chemical levels in the brain. I address/work to help you heal from emotional issues such as trauma so you can establish healthy, secure bonds in all your relationships (family, friends, love/partner/spouse).

How can I work with you?

Currently I have two options for working with me 1:1.

First, you can visit my HIS store and book a call session for $170. You can save by booking 3 sessions at once, and receiving your 4th call FREE. For couples seeking couples therapy I offer a two (2) free sessions AFTER you've booked the first session because I care about getting each person's perspective before working with you.

My second option is to join my Self-Healing Journey BASIC offer where we commit 4 weeks of intensive calls and you receive a downloadable HIS guide for a total of 6 hours. Price is $599 at the time of this writing.