What is HIS?
Healing is Sexy (HIS) is a movement and community of like minded individuals (regardless or your current relationship status) who wish to better understand how to experience successful relationships (to include marriage), through healing childhood trauma and learning relationship skills. HIS Matchmaking is a full-service A-Z to prepare you for experiencing life-long healthy relationships, friendships, partnerships, and marriage to include raising a family if that is in your future plans.
Who is HIS for?
Primarily for Black men and women who experienced having a physically and/or emotionally absent parents during childhood. But everyone can benefit from the relevant content on self-healing, re-parenting, and relationship skills for successful marriage. We all have childhood trauma and/or can learn to improve our relationship skills so we can experience happier, healthier relationships/marriages. Remember, your childhood environments have a direct impact on how you show up in relationships/your marriage today.
Why would I need a matchmaker or any sort of help with dating?
Relationships are a skill that you can learn. Most of us never truly learned what healthy relationships were made of so we find ourselves lost, confused, and unable to sustain that sort of connection. Incorporating a neutral, objective, and knowledgable third party from the very start to serve as a guide from A-Z is exactly what you need for you and your relationship to grow together, not for things to fall apart after investing so many months/years.
Also using a relationship expert makes all the difference in the preventative care of your heart's well-being and love life vs. dealing with the pain and conflict after the fact (i.e. counseling, therapy). When it comes to how much you invest your time, money, and heart it’s wise to protect your investment from the very start and not wait until there’s a problem that jeopardizes the future of your relationship and/or family.
Also using a relationship expert makes all the difference in the preventative care of your heart's well-being and love life vs. dealing with the pain and conflict after the fact (i.e. counseling, therapy). When it comes to how much you invest your time, money, and heart it’s wise to protect your investment from the very start and not wait until there’s a problem that jeopardizes the future of your relationship and/or family.
How does this process work?
Each matchmaking agency offers a unique blend of services and options. Here at HIS Matchmaking I’m able to provide you matchmaking services, literally from A-Z (start to finish) starting from self-healing to counseling while married. Once we complete your intake to establish which phase of life you’re currently at I can better assist you with which services are best suited for your current situation and how we can proceed.
How do I know HIS services is right for me and my situation?
The best way to really know is to first review the ideal candidates HIS Matchmaking is for. Currently, I’m serving Black men and women between the ages of 40-50. These candidates must be open to find love anywhere on the east coast of the USA and reside there as well. You can specify your preference for finding matches in your local area, with the understanding that this will limit the available matches that can be found. Those are the main two criteria. The rest can be determined during your intake process where we both determine whether or not we are a good fit for working together.
What exactly do I get from working with a matchmaker?
Again, each agency offers different levels of services to varying degree. With HIS Matchmaking you get the full spectrum of services offered, depending upon the package options you choose.
Why is matchmaking so expensive?
Matchmaking services are not cheap. We are talking about a more secured way of finding your life partner and future life of a family. Basically, one of the most if not the most important decision(s) and aspect of your life and legacy.
As you’ve probably experienced for yourself already dating, therapy, and other indirect costs for being in a relationship add up. When hiring an agency there are other expenses we need to undertake in order to ensure your safety and the accuracy of the results and matches we find for you.
HIS matchmaking brings the services of self-therapy, vetting dates, setting up dates, image consulting, relationship & marital counseling all under one roof and at a fraction of the cost you'd pay from purchasing each service from separately.
As you’ve probably experienced for yourself already dating, therapy, and other indirect costs for being in a relationship add up. When hiring an agency there are other expenses we need to undertake in order to ensure your safety and the accuracy of the results and matches we find for you.
HIS matchmaking brings the services of self-therapy, vetting dates, setting up dates, image consulting, relationship & marital counseling all under one roof and at a fraction of the cost you'd pay from purchasing each service from separately.
How Can I Join the HIS Community?
Please select the appropriate option. If you have further questions or comments feel free to reach out using the links below!
Email address: melwilliams@healingissexylife.com