While it’s true you are already your own star, today’s blog isn’t about being a star in your own universe….
Well, not exactly.
I’m talking about walking the walk and talking the talk.
After all, a celebrity isn’t a celebrity solely because they are the star of their own world. They’re famous or adored because others have taken notice and started taking notes.
When you become a celebrity others in your life will start to take notice and you may notice you’re having a “celebrity effect” on them.
Even strangers will take note, reaching out to you.
So how do you achieve the same celebrity effect without necessarily being a famous actor or musician?
For starters, you have to be in tune with your authentic self.
You have to stop tampering down your true self and molding yourself into the “safe” version society may have groomed you for.
Those crazy or “not secure” aspirations you have to do things no one in your circle has seen done before? Be true to that and learn productive ways to pursue those dreams.
That’s moving and aligning with who you are so that you’re prepared for….
Consistency. Being known for anything requires consistency.
Even if you were a one-hit-wonder, during that frame of time whatever you became known for had to have stuck around long enough to catch on with the masses to spread.
Unfortunately, society conditions many of us to consistently deny ourselves our truest desires or living the lifestyles we want with the empty promises of “somedays”.
But your happiness and living the life you want aren’t what’s important if you follow that path. It’s not even guaranteed!
Instead of being consistent in pursuit of someday living the life you want, I want you to become consistent in living the life you want, today, right now, and building on that for the remainder of your lifetime.
Think about it.
If you were to spend your lifetime building and living the life you desire for yourself starting today with a lifetime to go your happiness is guaranteed and you won’t have to worry about the regrets of “someday” never happening because you ensured it did on your terms.
With consistency, you also become known for at least one thing. Your thing. Whatever that is. It can be as simple as being known as the man or woman who “does it all” or who is living their best life.
Like a celebrity, your lifestyle may become idolized by those still stuck in their 9-5 mentalities, envying that you somehow always find time to go on nice trips or to show up so put together.
The only difference between you and them is that you made the switch. You don’t allow outside factors to dictate or limit how and what you accomplish in your life, you flip the script and work with what you have to tell your life how it’s going to be.
That’s what celebrities do.
A final word of caution.
Being a celebrity does not mean chasing after the Kardashians or being flashy. I believe I read somewhere, there are close to 800 billionaires.
How many of them can you name? Exactly.
But they’re still living the good life and are a celebrity in their own right.
Being known as a celebrity is really just a by-product of the decisions you make on how you decide to live your lifestyle.
So don’t make the mistake of putting the cart before the horse. Don’t fall for the hype where media tries to fool you into losing focus on how much you spend on designer anything, or how many chains you wear.
Being a celebrity will always start from the inside out. Yes, be your own star in your universe.
But why settle for just your universe when the whole world is waiting to be your playground?
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