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About Me 

Hey! I'm Mel Willams, founder of Healing Is Sexy (HIS) Lifestyle and I'm on a mission to join other self-healers in making our world a better, safer, happier space! I'm more of a free-spirited but still structured, goofball who likes to find the fun in life. I enjoy reading (A LOT), researching what where my next fashion inspiration will come from (I'm not obsessed with fashion yet, just the vibes lol), traveling (I love Miami!), and some time in the near future I want to be a mother to two fur babies (two mini Pomeranians; one black, one white). If you haven't already been able to tell I'm a bit of a rebel ;) and I don't plan on living a boring, average lifestyle. I've been natural for one year as of this writing (had to restart after two years when a stylist burnt my poor curls ;'(  ) and yeah... that's some of me in a nutshell. Hope to connect with more of you in the future! Here's to your Sexy!

From Me to You

Welcome to HIS (Healing Is Sexy), where my mission is to help you heal your childhood trauma so you can basically live your best life! My name is Mel Williams, aka the Inner Child Doctor.

My self-healing journey really kicked off after yet another toxic relationship ended. I told myself this would not continue to be how my love life went and I decided to get to the root of why I kept finding myself with toxic, emotionally abusive partners when I was nothing but the “perfect girlfriend/wife”…

Turns out I wasn’t so perfect, because my inner childhood wounds were screaming.

In those moments I realized how important it was to heal my childhood trauma so I could break the cycle of searching to be loved.

I didn’t realize how powerful it would make me.

Now, I control my destiny without needing to look to others. Because I learned to meet my own needs. I met my inner child and I gave her everything my parents failed to provide and teach me. Emotional availability, love, protection, security, quality time, attention, and a space to be seen, heard, and acknowledged. Validated. The freedom to authentically be herself and take up space.

And now I want to help you, regardless of your relationship status to accomplish the same feat.
When our parents didn’t model healthy relationship behaviors for us during our childhood, we instinctively learned bad relationship coping habits because as children we were dependent on those adults.

You are not alone.

Many of us grew up never knowing what a healthy, secure relationship felt or even looks like.

But the great news is that can change. Today. Right now. Because you too can do like I did and make a determined decision to change your story.
You can unlearn the survival mentality and behaviors you needed back when your parents failed you. You can parent your inner child so they learn to gravitate towards healthy, secure, and loving partners.

And the BEST part is that this is 100% guaranteed to transform your life by making you the best single/person, partner, couple, lover, or anything else you desire to be.

If you’re ready to put in the work, and tap into your superpowers I’m here to serve as your mentor and invite you into my HIS lifestyle community.

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